Author: Fatherologist

breastfeeding2Let’s face it, you’re a guy and breasts are interesting and fascinating for completely different reasons than breastfeeding. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t know what it means to breastfeed and what the benefits are for your woman and child. It also doesn’t mean that men can genetically switch off their fundamentally programmed instincts when it comes to the female form and what we associate it with. …

no childrenMost people generally have the ambition to one day get married and have kids. It’s usually the standard plan. That was never the case for me. I discovered music and art at a young age and even before that, while my friends were looking at centerfolds of porn magazines, I preferred the centerfolds of astronomy books that had those glow in the dark constellations. I remember sitting out on a dark meadow at night, trying to find Cassiopeia, the Pleiades and Orion.

The pattern stayed the same when I discovered DJing at the age of 13. At the youth center, while the other kids were trying to impress girls with guitars and drums, I was spinning vinyl in a storage room downstairs. I was always outside the box of normality. Hey dad, remember the pimpy 80’s fur coats I recycled from your old wardrobe? Oh lord……

diapers

BTBB – Before The Baby’s Born is a series where I compare something I imagine how it’s going to be and what it actually is like After The Baby’s Born (ATBB).

One of the first things you’ll have to deal with when the baby is born is of course the diapers. I’ll be completely honest, I just recently learned about cloth diapers. I just assumed it was one of those things of yesteryear. Turns out, it’s actually a quite large and growing industry. …